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I love what you've wrote, and its extremly true. I got told by somebody a while ago that when you point your finger at somebody you'll notice that three fingers are pointing right back at you. Ive aslo experienced lately people that say hurtful things behind my back but yet no-body seems to have the balls to come upto me and say them face to face.

It seems so easy for other people to cast the first stone as if their perfect or something but everybody has demons hidden under their bed whether they want to admit it or not.

I really love the song you put on, the who are great. There is another good version of this song by Limp Bizkit which I like listening to.

Take care Antonia :-D xxx

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...and great song:)
Very inspirational Post. Thanks for that. It's very true. I think what makes a good person is not perfection, but effort. And we all falter at times. The important thing is to try to forgive so that we may find forgiveness, to try not to find faults in others so they don't try to find faults in us, and to spread a smile so that we receive them in return. Anger is a touchy thing as well. I think the strongest people are those who can suppress their anger & channel it into something positive. The other day at work, someone took my lunch & I was soooooo hungry. When I found out it was my boss playing a practical joke on me, whether I wanted to or not, I had to keep my mouth shut! When he gave it to me finally, I just smiled at him. Ever since, he's been much more lenient with me and treats me very well.... So maybe those times when we can get angry and don't are a blessing in disguise? I'm still trying to improve in this issue & I still have a long way to go, but I think the important thing is to never stop trying.
Hi Antonia

Yes that is a great saying about the three fingers pointing back at you.

I am sorry that people have been saying things behind your back, how nice of them :-(

Yes none of us are perfect that is for sure. One of the reasons for the post was that I lost my cool a bit on some one's blog and well I am not proud of the fact. So yes I am no where near perfect.

One of the other reasons for the post, is that one of the reasons why I lost my cool is because in many ways I felt that people were judging some people rather unfairly, not judging everyone unfairly but some people. In my opinion given what these people were promoting as their own so called beliefs, they should have known better.

The song is a great song isn't it and I actually think it is quite appropriate for how I was feeling.

Much debate over the internet about this version verses the Limp Bizkit version. Traditional "The Who" fans totally condemn the Limp Bizkit version. I actually don't mind either and if it wasn't for the Limp Bizkit version, I would never have known there was another version i.e. the original version. The way they are sung and the change of lyrics actually makes them totally different in meaning.

The Who version was much more appropriate here as it conveyed the meaning I was after, this version is not about a romantic relationship gone wrong, it is more about us as humans fighting our own inner demons. I also love the part where the lyrics are almost like a prayer or a piece of Biblical scripture only in a more modern form.

Thanks for dropping by Antonia.
XXXOOO

I think what makes a good person is not perfection, but effort. And we all falter at times. The important thing is to try to forgive so that we may find forgiveness, to try not to find faults in others so they don't try to find faults in us, and to spread a smile so that we receive them in return.

Very wise words indeed.

I am glad you kept your cool when your lunch went missing, it was obviously worth it. I hope your boss is still treating you well.

Here is a smile for you to spread around

*SMILE*


: ) SMILE : ) Smile's all around! lol

Ugliness is always a hard thing to face, be it in ourself or others. I think what's harder still is learning to accept it as part of being human. From my experience, running away from the things you dislike most about yourself is a surefire way to stumble upon them further down the road.

Yet as ugly as we find ourselves at times, there is that much or more beauty within us as well. It's hard to find sometimes, even harder than the ugliness that is it's kin by blood. The term enantiodromia comes to mind, along with the image of flowers growing in a bog.

For me, the amazing thing about people is our capacity to do the impossible, be it for good or ill. To have such potential is a miraculous thing. If anything, the desire for improvement stems from the hope that overall, it will be used benevolently.
Very wise words indeed Jarod.

Yes running away from ourselves never works and denying who we are never works. No matter how far we run, we can never run away from who we are.

Yes the analogy of the Lotus. I have a book devoted to the Lotus flower, magnificent photos and some very wise words.

"The Lotus is a magnificent paradox. Its leaves and flowers grow in the mud and murky water, yet they are unstained. It is associated with both heat and cool, chaos and order, the sun and the moon, even life and death ........."

If anything, the desire for improvement stems from the hope that overall, it will be used benevolently.

In the main I agree and I hope we are right.


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